In short: Eros Dates (erosdates.com) is an adult marketplace for Europe where every verified advertiser is checked by hand with an ID and a selfie, visitors find ads on an interactive map, and escorts, massage, BDSM and creators share one platform in seven languages. Advertisers must be 21+, visitors 18+.
People often ask what makes Eros Dates different from other ad sites. Here are the nine reasons we hear most, from advertisers and from visitors.
1. Every verified advertiser is checked by hand
Advertisers who verify send an official ID and a selfie holding that ID next to a sheet with a handwritten code. A person on our team compares them by hand. We never use facial recognition. The badge means the document looked valid, the face matched and the advertiser is at least 21. It does not say anything about availability or rates.
2. The interactive map
On the interactive map you see ads around you, or around the place you are travelling to. Zoom out to a region when there is nothing in your own street yet. For many visitors it is the quickest way to see what is nearby.
3. Independents and agencies
Eros Dates is open to independent advertisers and to agencies. Independents run their own profile and their own contact details. Agencies can advertise too, and every profile they place follows the same verification rules.
4. Clear age rules: 21+ to advertise, 18+ to visit
Advertising starts at 21 and the site is for visitors aged 18 and over. If a profile looks underage or coerced, please tell us via report abuse.
5. Free to start
Creating an account and browsing are free. Advertiser accounts created by 30 November 2026 get Scale free for 12 months. The conditions are on free advertising.
6. One platform for Europe, in seven languages
Eros Dates runs on erosdates.com and on country sites such as erosdates.nl, erosdates.de, erosdates.fr and erosdates.es. The site is available in English, Dutch, German, French, Spanish, Portuguese and Russian, so visitors read in their own language and advertisers reach people who don't speak the local one.
7. All services in one place
Escort, erotic massage, BDSM, private reception and online content each have their own place. Visitors don't need five different sites, and advertisers can show what they offer in one profile.
8. A full erotic marketplace that travels with you
Eros Dates covers both ads and creators. With Content+, creators sell photos, videos and posts on the same platform as their profile. Wherever you work, your profile and your content live on one account.
Changing your location. Working somewhere else for a while? Change the location on your ad and it appears on the map and in the listings for your new city, so visitors there can find you. Your profile and content move with you, and you don't need a new account. Every plan includes location changes, and the number depends on the plan you choose.
9. Clear plans
There are three plans: Starter, Growth and Scale. Each one shows what it includes before you choose. Every plan lists its location changes and extras up front, with no hidden costs. See advertisement opportunities.
What a badge does not do
A badge says the advertiser is real and adult. It doesn't prove a photo is recent. Keep first messages on the platform, never pay a deposit to someone you can't verify, and contact customer support if something feels wrong. Rules differ by country: see our guide to sex work laws in Europe.
FAQ
Is Eros Dates free?
Browsing and creating an account are free. Advertiser accounts created by 30 November 2026 get Scale free for 12 months.
How does verification work?
ID plus a selfie with a handwritten code, compared by hand by a person on our team. No facial recognition.
Can agencies advertise?
Yes. Independents and agencies can both advertise, under the same rules.
Can I change my location when I travel?
Yes. You change the location on your ad and it shows up in the new city on the map and in the listings. Your profile and content stay on the same account. The number of location changes depends on your plan.
Short version
Eros Dates (erosdates.com) checks advertisers by hand, shows ads on an interactive map, welcomes independents and agencies, and puts ads and creators on one platform in seven languages. Advertisers 21+, visitors 18+. Eros Dates is a DIY marketplace operated by Business Investment Group B.V., works under the GDPR and is not a party to any agreement between members.
